Life’s Bittersweet Melody

 “As I sit and stare out of my window I begin to wonder am I really cursed or is it just my imagination trying to find some way to cover up the fact that I’m having a bad day?”

I’m not so sure, everyone has a bad day from time to time but when day turns to weeks and week turn to months you start to ask yourself “Is this right?”

Something good happens and you think things are getting better but no sooner you think that its snatched away with no good reason, this begins and endless cycle of questions in one’s mind  that generally come down to “what did I do this time”

“I” being the word in focus here, if things go wrong and there’s no reason most people will blame themselves naturally.

Fate, Destiny etc., All imply that our paths are pre-written and that we are just living a life with no choices made of free will, it’s hard to sit and think every choice we make has already been planned and if it is true that it’s all been planned then why would anyone plan someone’s life to be so hard and full of problems?

“To learn from mistakes”, “It will help you grow as a person” and “It’s all a test” are just some of the things I hear people say. Is that really the case, personally I believe that we have the power to take control of our own life’s and shape it to what we want it to be.

Positive thinking really does work! If you think and really believe you can do something you can, with the right way of thinking impossible will never exist.

So to some it all up

We are not cursed, we have just got ourselves into a rut that is hard to evade. 
If you’re having a bad day just keep telling yourself that tomorrow WILL be better!
If you don’t believe that your life will get better, then it won’t simple as that!

Here are my top tips on making your life better

1.       1.My first and best tip has got to be No Regrets
Regretting things in life’s is like sitting down and letting the world go on around you,
“What is done is done” You can’t change it now, past is past concentrate on the present

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      2.Acceptation
we are only human and we always make mistakes the only thing we can do is learn from them and move on. Accepting your mistakes is the only way for them to evaporate.

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      3.Get rid of the idea that the world is only out to get you!  You may have experience pain and misfortune but that is not a sign that your life will remain that way for eternity

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      4.Positive affirmation is a great idea. Scatter notes around for yourself to find like “Anything is possible”, “I have the power to change my life” and anything you see fit

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      5.Always remember that life really is too short and that every moment should be treasured and spent wisely. Worrying over things is pointless, most of the time you worry over things that may never happen and have put yourself down for no reason

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      6.My Last but not least tip has got to be
       LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

“We are the future not the past and so we shall live our lives”

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I am open to criticism as it helps me learn :)

Thank you

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